I have learned life lessons after dealing with difficult relatives and exes who believe in tearing you down because that is "Fun" for them. I believe that being honest about who we are to ourselves is the most important lesson we can learn in life. I am learning that myself but in the course of doing so I have been ridiculed for my efforts. Nonetheless, I have only realized that it has made me stronger. Forging my own path no matter however long it takes is the way I want my life to go. I am the only architect of my fate and no one can break my morale on that front. Let me help you to feel the same for yourself.