I started dating a guy when I was young it went on for 4 long years. Since the beginning of the relationship, I found myself to be begging for attention & time but he put no effort at all. Also, he wouldn't talk to me for days which make me panic. During the first 2 years, when I felt like things were getting hard, I portrayed my frustration by saying that I wanted to break up but he always assured me that things would be fine & he is in love with me. But soon, he started taking me for granted & blackmailed me that he would leave me and blame me for everything that went wrong. Finally, I broke up with him. It wasn't easy but I healed myself & now I want to help you.